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vardon

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2011-01-30 14-34-50

Question re. Age difference for a relationship Hi, I'm 54, and really interested in a 39 year old lady for a long term relationship. Is this too much of an age difference? Just wanted some perspectives before I plunge headlong into this. FYI, I'm very fit, look much younger than my years (if that matters!)
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2011-01-31 9-34-59-

I don't see a problem with it once we reach age of maturity... I do find it a problem for people that have lived different life styles or are in their teens/early twenties with someone much older because they are vastly different people at these points. Can you provide details? Do you both work? Have ? Previous LTRs? I think the decision needs tobe more based on who you are and what your life paths have been, rather than age.
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2011-01-31 15-42-12

Nice post nymph. Maturity level is a defining factor.
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2011-02-01 16-46-37

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2011-02-03 3-49-24-

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2011-02-03 12-38-59

depends At 54, you may or may not have enough in common to make it work. (many do make it work). Potential problems: -At 39, she may still want -If you have ren, they may object to step=mom who is closer to their age than yours. -Some younger partners don't like playing nurse maid as you get older.
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  • taggart

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    2011-02-03 17-30-38

    I agree. OP, if you've already explored the thing, either way, and feel compatible on that front, I say go for it. It would be different if of you was barely of legal age, lacking much experience. By 39, she's been around the block. Ignore that stuff about you having foot in the grave, and fear that you'll be needing Depends before you hit 60. Someone special to me lived to 106, and was in complete control of her faculties right until the last moments of her life. A person in their early twenties can have health problems, too. So age isn't the only factor to consider. I say, if you're happy and compatible, enjoy. I'm 56. If a man in his late 60s struck my interest, nobody would stand in my way. I might go for a guy in his 40s, too, provided he could keep up with me. ;-)
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    2011-02-03 18-37-09

    The only whose opinion matters is her. What does she say?
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    2011-02-03 20-44-01

    Sort of, I think that he should also consider what is best for her.
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    2011-02-03 21-15-10

    Why shoud anyone assume that she is the only ignorant of these risks? What gives him the right to decide for her and possibly withhold from her something that she wants?
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    2011-02-04 10-48-26

    I don't think that she's ignorant of the risks. When I got married, I thought about whether or not I was good for my wife and I hope she did the same for me.
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    2011-02-04 13-33-04

    Lets assume a 39yo woman is fully capable of considering what is best for her.. Jeeesuz people!
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    2011-02-07 22-06-08

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    2011-03-19 12-23-41

    It can work If you are youthful in your outlook. If she has wisdom. If your energy levels match. If you have commonalities. If your goals are similar (A big is does she still want ?). There are a lot of factors, but it can work for sure.
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    2011-04-03 12-54-18

    Actually, when the age difference is more than x years, the divorce rate is extremely high. These big age difference marriages work better when the guy is old and very rich and the woman is major into money. He gets his trophy, she gets the gold.
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    2011-09-05 17-56-05

    I'm willing to buck the odds My SO is x yrs older & I hope we get hitched some day. A little risk for a huge pay-out... I'm in!
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    2012-03-06 10-03-43

    Works for me. Oberon is x, I'm x.
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    2012-10-23 12-54-10

    That totally depends on the chemistry between you and your health, mental and all. I'm x and my ex is x. Were it not for our colossal destructive character defects and inner demons, wild and free, we might just still be married.
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    Question to women here... What would be some things that prevent you from getting involved with someone x years older than you?
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    2013-09-18 17-43-53

    I've been there and done it but I've always gotten along better with the older crowd..reason because I had and started working so young, other is just life experiences. If the guy hadn't had any , then that would probably stop me only because I want someone who understands being a parent. If he was REALLY immature, that would stop me.
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    2015-07-11 23-19-05

    Women outlive men by about x years. So, with an older guy like this, his life expectancy is about x, meaning he can be expected to live another x years and spend some infirm years before then. Her life expectancy is about x years, so she can be expected to live another x years. He is setting her up to be alone for the last x+ years of her life and to spend a couple of years changing his diapers. It is really selfish for these old guys to go after significantly younger women, it's like they don't care if she has to be his nurse, or that she will be condemned to living out her life al If he cared abut her, he would want her to be with someone her own age. Sperm degenerates after age x and increases the likelihood hf having a defective offspring, so women who want should keep that in mind. Marriages generally do better and have a lower divorce rate when the parties are close in age. It looks that Nature intended for people to mate within their own generation.
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    sandifer

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    2015-12-17 1-48-09-

    how do you come up with this shit? We know nothing about this man or woman, we don't know about their health, lifestyle, hobbies, jobs, and you can't make giant fucking assumptions about their life spans! I've knownwomen in their x's die this past week. Hell, a x year old got killed by a drunk driver last night a few blocks from my house. Life throws many curveballs, I think its disgusting you give advice based on meaningless statistics and pointless stereotypes. OP could end up being the love of this womans life, none of us know that based on their ages. Huge shocker, YOU don't know everything. I know, hard to hear.
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