Sexual Insecurity in the Bible Belt My basic nature at the gym is go in, work out really hard, and get out. I am not a socializer at the gym because I am very self conscious. I think this stems from being a lesbian. The woman of my dreams was working out at the gym today. There were a few opportunities for me to acknowledge her but I freeze whenever I am around her. I don't know her at all and I don't know if she's bi or gay. She passed by me and I think she tried to smile but I was too busy paying attention to my workout. Doh! My question is, now that I've totally screwed up, how can I change? What can I do to become more comfortable so that I can talk with her next time I see her? Thank you for any helpful ideas. I really would appreciate all the help I can get.

First off, why aren't you posting this in ? I know, I know; they're kinda mean. Secondly, I don't think you screwed up at all! If you suspect she was "trying to smile" it sounds like maybe she's shy of you as well. I don't have any advice on how to be more confident (I'm that way, too). But try to smile at her first and maybe you'll get somewhere. Good luck...

They're kinda mean over there, sorry! Thank you so much for your optimism. I'll definitely try to smile next time.

Can we watch when the cuntlapping happens?

Get the fuck out, moron.

No you!

Is that you trying to act like a man?

while I don't think you screwed up I doubt she's at the gym trying to hook up with people. if you happen to talk to her, let it happen naturally or your gym experience won't be pleasant

Are you sure? I work out in the privacy of my living room. I thought the only reason anyone went to a gym was to pick people up.

I used to go to the gym and gave people who stared at me dirty looks!!

Are you a fatty?

More likely it was her huge bewbs

That's a possibility as well ...

I've seen her bewbs. They definitely draw the eye, and that's when she's sitting still.

When did y'all meet?

Last time I was in SF. After you moved.

did you bang her?

Are you a fuckface? Yes. Yes you are.

no I'm not compared to your fat head

Boy, you're a comedienne!

you're not