Singles dating service

Welcome, Guest. Please login or register.

Login with username, password and session length
News: Singles dating services - Today hot theme: Phone Sex On your behalf, millenium woodland concert, adult ageplay State Line IN, Colorado AZ
   Singles dating services   Help Login Register  
Pages: What would you do? [1]
Author Topic: What would you do?

Sr. Member
Posts: 2

View Profile 
2011-01-30 14-18-33

What would you do? Ex hasn't paid support in 5-6 years and is $30K in arrears. He isn't in enforcement as we went the direct pay route, that lasted 2-3 years until his payments became sporadic and then non-existent. The thing is, he really lays on the pity party with our kid. You know, makes me out to be the bad guy like I have a lot of nerve to expect him to help support his kid. It's hard enough to deal with a teen without the ex cry babying to the kid with the woe is me routine. I get that he doesn't have the cash and that he hasn't held a steady job for several years now, BUT - he hasn't paid when he did work and he doesn't seem to be putting much effort into keeping the good job he did have or finding a new What do you think? Write him off or put him in enforcement?
Looking for LTR 56 OR +more older, adult line Batesville OH

Find Hot Sexy Girls in


Posts: 2

View Profile 
2011-01-31 4-50-19-

I would contact a lawyer or the court and have a stipulation put into the custody agreement that neither parent is allowes to bad mouth the other and the next time it does, he's in contempt. Report his ass.
Someone who has time for a relationship, black personal ads Lochearn MD, Betws-Y-Coed -
  • Women seeking man for sex Venice Gardens
  • Phu

    Full Member
    Posts: 4

    View Profile 
    2011-01-31 7-32-36-

    Have a talk with God today. He will provide the answers that you seek all you have to do is be willing to listen.
    Looking for a Top Daddy?, dating matchmaking Holdingford, Johnstown Ontario, Sun AZ, Etowah - Canadian Lakes MI
  • Looking for lonely married women Causey NM
  • garp

    Full Member
    Posts: 5

    View Profile 
    2011-01-31 18-17-22

    My thoughts I'd probably let the arrears go, what's past is past and you let it get that way. I'd also go the enforcement route for any and all future payments.
    let me be your sex slave! ill do what you say!, local single Kingfisher, Trappe PA, Bearcreek MT, Holly Grove - Joiner AR, Foster
  • Older women seeking for travelpartner and sex Dalton MO
  • maready

    Posts: 10

    View Profile 
    2011-02-01 13-40-37

    How often does he see the ? I admire your patience. As a Dad with 30% time I need the same living arraingements as the mom, which comes with the same bills. only difference is, I am supposed to pay her $625 a month for . She ed my employer, accusing me of drugs and assault and I lost my job. The courts didn't do shit about it, all lies. They didn't reduce cs either. So now I am heading to jail for the second time. I wish she was like you, can you have him buy the kid clothes and personal items instead of paying cash?
    Oral Service for Mature Straight Men, female loking man Navassa NC, Calhoun City - Canada de los Alamos NM

    Posts: 8

    View Profile 
    2011-02-02 10-37-43

    Perhaps your employer didn't like you to begin with. Most employers would want to see proof and send you for a drug test prior to firing you. I hope you at least got unemployment, beings your employer had no proof.
    Seeking Eleyna, adult married - Aneth UT

    Posts: 30

    View Profile 
    2011-02-02 11-19-28

    Well, it was the second time she did it, they just got tired of the drama. The first time they gave the courts good recommendations for me and helped me when I had no place to sleep. I proved my innocence at a very high cost and they knew she was lying to begin with. You would think the courts would have charged her with harassment or slander.
    Oral stimulation for Seattle ladies by a cute guy, best online dating site - West Middlesex PA, Carnuel NM

    Posts: 36

    View Profile 
    2011-02-03 16-29-46

    That sucks! But you could have charged her with that. It's not up to the courts to start a harassment suit.
    Real life sex doll available to use how you want, single individual women looking for men Yeovil, Lennox - Farnborough

    Posts: 3

    View Profile 
    2011-02-03 16-36-21

    You can't sue your wife. I tried
    freak need a host, women seeking a man for sex Eureka TX, Mount Leonard MO - Kingman IN, Erick


    Posts: 37

    View Profile 
    2011-02-04 12-42-14

    he sees the kid when it suits him he's a low life, lets the kid pay for their entertainment since he's always telling the kid that he never has any money. He never pays for anything for this kid. He doesn't even maintain a home, he mooches off his sister. Why should he get serious about finding a job? No is chasing him for support and he gets by mooching off his family, collecting unemployment and, when he feels like it, working off the books jobs.
    Hung, Hot Top Hosting Bubble Ass Bottom, married horney moms -
  • hopeless casual personals
  • cypert

    Posts: 13

    View Profile 
    2011-02-04 13-09-54

    I don't think after everything you wrote that you will ever see 30k from him so I would let it go. You have a teen so start counting down the years until he's 18 and you don't have to even think about the ex. Save yourself the headache and write him off.
    soldier for pics, couples looking for a man Bordentown, Donovan - Badajoz, Homedale, Mississippi, Luton Airport
  • Single dating online Viransehir
  • hoeffner

    Sr. Member
    Posts: 18

    View Profile 
    2011-02-27 3-42-18-

    You do have some sense in you. Re: your Dad Your dad may be pissed at your ex, my ex FIL reported me as a drug user, abuser, etc. He was all wrong but my then wife believed him. No, you shouldn't get back with your ex, but don't believe your Dad until he can prove it. Keep your parents and friends 100% seperate from your husband. Tell them you have everything under control, my mom thought she lost her $8000 ring, but found it 3 weeks later.
    Any college guys need a bedtime blowjob?, married and lonely women looking single men Mullins SC, Davis CA - Lowell Point AK
  • Intimate encounter Port Ewen NY
  • laskin

    Posts: 44

    View Profile 
    2011-05-12 2-06-25-

    Do the Dept of Revenue enforcement thing. He may be lying to you about his employment situation. The DOR has his social security number and can put a lien on his earnings that are above the table. You could be in for a pleasant surprise. The worse case scenario is that he is $x,x+ in arrears, if you have it on record with enforcement then say he hits the lottery, gets an inheritance, etc. guess who gets paid xst. It is easy to do and you have nothing to lose..........
    i'm seeking an orally talented guy, dating for women Boynton Oklahoma, Annawan Illinois, Superior WI, Cross River New York -
    good looking midget

    Full Member
    Posts: 18

    View Profile 
    2011-06-22 14-14-05

    they can't take from inheritance lottery yes, but I would find a family member to cash in the monies
    Still lonley, swingers tonight Canadys, Humptulips, Caney Oklahoma, Bainbridge Island WA - Elmira California, Ames, Union, Lewisville AR
  • Married women looking for affairs Rhinelander WI
  • wissinger

    Posts: 25

    View Profile 
    2011-11-19 18-38-23

    re-file the proper way just re-file everything thru support and let he face it with surpport instead of you.
    5 occassions, 5 hours, Say Fair, moms sexy feet Arnold Nebraska, Babbie - Grandview Park, Bread Loaf Vermont, New Kingman Butler AZ, Soldiers Grove WI

    Members in looking for a horny date


    Posts: 32

    View Profile 
    2011-12-21 0-47-10-

    truth is I can't deal with the fallout If I put him in enforcement he will start complaining to the kid. I don't know if I can deal with it. If enforcement puts him in jail my kid will never let me forget that I put daddy in jail. I'm sure he isn't working a legit job. He's NEVER held on to a job very long.
    LOOKING FOR BIG CUMMERS, xxx al pussy - Underwood MN
    Sex black, older women seeking younger men, online dating single Esuboni.

    Related Posts


    Report Abuse

    Valid CSS! Powered by SMF 1.1.11 | SMF © 2006-2009, Simple Machines LLC Valid XHTML 1.0!