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2011-01-30 13-55-18

Idea to both be tied... So my gf and I have been playing with bondage and restraints for over a year now, with me being the restrained about 75% of the time... she gets off on being restrained, but not quite as much as by seeing me helpless. We've played enough that we haven't had a safeword in ages... we always make sure the restraints are comfortable, never leave the other alone (or gagged) and can tell by now if there really was a pain/safety issue. Now it's kind of to the point where we need something new. We've already gone as far as agreeing that once of us is bound on a weekend, whoever has the keys can choose to play out the normal scene, or leave the sub bound and teased without being allowed to climax until morning (without notice and regardless of objection). That spiced things up and we've each suffered (and enjoyed at the same time) that scenario a few times each. Now we had a new idea... Basiy, I would be bound with locking leather cuffs to the headboard with feet secured together to the footboard. Now the interesting part is using the self-bondage lock () her put herself in the exact same position, with just enough freedom for each of us to perhaps kiss and tease, but not to possibly have sex. This way, we each are equally frustrated. Once the ice melts and she's released, she'd immediately take care of me while still bound. Obviously there are some risks, but the release mechanism is foolproof and we do have a friend in the complex who has a key to our apt- we'd keep a cell in reach just in case we needed to (embarrassing) her in a true emergency. Long post I know, but any thoughts?
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2011-01-31 3-08-27-

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2011-01-31 13-40-00

I would reccomend a spotter in the apt phones can easily get misplaced. have you considered binding yourself to each other rather than stationary objects?
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2011-02-03 6-03-33-

that would be the ideal... ...but honestly, nobody knows (or would imagine) the interest we have, and we live al There really isn't anyone I could imagine asking to sit in the living room "just in case", nor can I think of any reason to have someone come over too an empty apt and stay out of the bedroom for that long. We have done that before. The idea here is more to experience something totally new, which is both being denied any possible way to satisfy either ourselves or our partner at the same time. If there is a better way to realistiy do this, we'd be open to it.
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2011-02-03 17-55-11

you could put each other in chastity or something like that. I am invisioning matching crotch ropes, with about 6 feet of rope between yall, tied at the waist. bind her wrists to your ankles and her feet. Or yours to hers. I dunno, I don't have any experience with this kind of play, just tossing ideas out there.
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2011-02-03 21-35-13

Velcro wrist restraints can be used and taken off by the person who is bound if positioned right. Anyone remember Steven Kings "Gerald's Game"? He handcuffs her to a bed at a lake house and then drops dead of a heart attack. If you have a way of tying yourselves to the ceiling or a rafter, this might be fun- wrist restraints on each of you connected to ropes to pulleys above led from him to her tits with nipple clips and/or to a rope wedged in her pussy, and from her to his cock and balls . As your arm gets tired they will pull on the other as you face each other. It probably will not be enough to cum, but will provide mutual pain and stimulation. The hard part is getting the last wrist restraint on, but with velcro it is possible. Enjoy- love your idea.
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    2011-02-14 7-59-48-

    I remember that book... Can make think...
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  • flippen

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    2011-03-26 10-28-57

    Yes, there always needs to be an out for any bondage. It was fun reading it- others thought Steven King so just vanilla horror, but it had a delicious twist and nothing supernatural, and all possible.
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    2011-08-09 5-24-24-

    no, you need to disclose what's going on chances are, she's got at least friend who's cool and won't mind hanging out and watching a movie while y'all do your thing.
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  • bartl

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    2011-11-25 16-35-30

    Also,it might be hard to explain why you want her to do this without some disclosure. I know I would be curious- she might just "accidentally" show up early. I do not know how your wife would feel about it, but doing this with her and another woman would be very hot, and expand the possibilities exponentially. My wife & I are purely monogamous, but it is fun to fantasize.
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    2012-08-06 21-12-49

    I've helped out people before simply as a safety measure, not to play or anything like that. Not much different than when I was a teenager and got hired to babysit at a party. People do their thing and I am around for just in case.
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    2013-04-09 10-46-33

    no, I've never had to intervene sometimes I might offer an opinion on how to do something or help tie a knot but for the most part I just showed up and hung out. Watch some TV, step outside for a smoke, maybe have a snack or read a book. When they are done I joke a little about whatever and head on home.
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    2014-02-07 22-53-16

    Lucky you if she would consider it If she is going to be in another room, why not go the next step-another fantasy thought- while you are tied standing up with the ropes to each others genitals, the friend spanks/paddles/whips each of you- you will not be able to keep from involuntarily pulling on the rope to the other. So pain forcauses pain for the other. The friend will probably volunteer to be the nexttied up to you or your wife and vice versa.
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  • sulimani

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    you and I think alike.... ...but I'm not sure I'll be able to talk her into letting someone watch or participate.... but yes, having her friend with our riding crop would make things a bit more "interesting"...
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    2015-10-16 6-24-08-

    velcro.... just gave me a bit of an idea. If there was a way to position the restraints so that neither of us could pull open our own wrist, but could pull open the others, it would be a fun game of cat and mouse trying to convince each other why they should be free while the other is left bound.... ::kinky grin::
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