Singles dating service

Welcome, Guest. Please login or register.

Login with username, password and session length
News: Singles dating services - Today hot theme: Could you usage some extra assist?, Meal at Mangias, italy sex free Witten
 
   Singles dating services   Help Login Register  
Pages: Support [1]
Author Topic: Support
nowels

Member
Posts: 1

View Profile 
2011-01-30 5-08-51-

Support My ex currently pays $400 a month for three ren ages 5, 8 and 9. It almost covers food, and if any is ever left over I put it into rent ($1600.00 per month). After not hearing from the ex for about a month, I got a saying she was taking me to court to get the CS lowered. She has already tried twice in the last years to do this. Each time she does, they say it should get raised. The first time to $600 and the second time to $800. Both times she dropped it and I agreed to keep it at the amount of $400, to avoid going to trial. I live in Southern California and she lives in Northern California. Every time have to appear by phone and use court I pay between $40 - $60. On average I have to appear by phone 3 or 4 times before sh drops it. She has also done something similar with custody. Questions: 1. What are the odds that the support amount will stay the same or get suggested for a raise? 2. Can I ask or file for her to pay for the phone s? 3. How often can someone take someone to court with no reason before it becomes harassment?
I rode past you on Brighton ave., no strings attached Tamarack, Nassawadox, Pound WI, Moulton

Find Hot Sexy Girls in

frean

Member
Posts: 3

View Profile 
2011-02-01 2-34-05-

You do know that She is only responsible for half the cost of food, right. I mean, I agree that you are paying more of the share, but that is what happens to women everyday. Men get all huffy over paying $400.00 a month in support, but as you can see, it doesn't even scratch the surface of what it really cost to raise the . Does she make enough to raise the support & still support herself? C.A has a law that you can't take more than a certain amount of money, the payee has the right to live as well.
For the traveling man, dating personal Millry, Hagerman NM - Manorville PA, El monte
horny couples searching single mother dating, mature Tucson pussy Tucson.
greinke

Member
Posts: 14

View Profile 
2011-02-02 0-11-40-

400 per month for 3 in California? Are you kidding? Most of the men here would give their left nut for support that low. CS is supposed to pay a portion of food, shelter, clothing, and other necessities, as well as some of the extras. If CS is only paying for food, that's getting by easy.
MARRIED/DIVORCED/SINGLE/SLIGHTLY RETARDED/DONT REALLY CARE, single black people Red Butte WY - Bowie
  • If you were British would you want the monarchy
  • stagnaro

    Hero Member
    Posts: 4

    View Profile 
    2011-02-02 12-10-19

    He does not live in CA. She does, he lives in a MUCH cheaper place.
    Who wnats to come over and fuck my ass raw, hot personals Ivanhoe Estates FL, Fort Pierce North FL, St-Basile New Brunswick, La Center - Walnut Cove NC, Climax GA
  • Adult chat cam Fults
  • brackeen

    Full Member
    Posts: 3

    View Profile 
    2011-02-02 19-18-51

    My bad. I misread it. I thought it said something else. But what is your point anyway. You think she should pay more, because she is a she? My point was that men complain about what they pay all the time & this is proof that it doesn't even come close to the real cost of raising .
    anchor pharmacy, huge cock -

    ankeney

    Member
    Posts: 15

    View Profile 
    2011-02-02 22-47-45

    She is remarrid To a guy who works and owns a home. His parents share the property they have. I'm not the taking anyone to court, and I am also not asking for more support. Every time she files, it gets calculated by the DCSS. Originally is was supposed to be guideline but we agreed $400 was fair. I pick up the cost of everything and went the first year of having the without support.
    eat some pussy & suck me off, married women wanting single men Bellview - Hammondville
    manes

    Sexy
    Posts: 6

    View Profile 
    2011-02-03 12-42-34

    it goes by HER income, it doesn't matter what he makes or owns. They are not his & the courts will not make him pay you for them.
    ..cuddle and movie partner wanted, women for a affair Earlsboro OK, De Witt NE, Butler PA, Weldon CA - Itasca, Oakland
  • Women looking for a fuck buddy Stonewall LA
  • vitti

    User
    Posts: 6

    View Profile 
    2011-02-03 23-56-53

    And yes they are my I hope. They live with me, I am the dad.
    My last dance, seeking sex North Wantagh - Rollingstone, Cricket NC
    redwood

    Sr. Member
    Posts: 8

    View Profile 
    2011-02-04 4-00-21-

    with that reasoning she'd also be responsible for half of the $1600 housing, half of the water and electric bill too. Do you really want to go there?
    Need a place to stay for football week, senior dating New Post WI, Decatur IA, Millport NY, Wichita - Mount Pleasant IA, Rupert, Kinnelon, Blair
    kazarian

    Sr. Member
    Posts: 8

    View Profile 
    2011-02-04 5-13-27-

    Not half. She would be responsible for about $600 in rent, that is 1600/4*3/2= $600 bucks. The same equation would be used for power, water. That's it, phone, internet, cable none of that counts.
    cum fuck my mouth and maybe my ass, adult hookups Wamsutter WY - Lindstrom, Friona TX, South Brooksville, Coulee Dam WA
  • Looking for moms to have sex North Berwick
  • vanryn

    Member
    Posts: 5

    View Profile 
    2011-02-04 8-51-28-

    The point is it's already more than $400
    Wanting a Black girl, married people flirting - Barnesville MD
  • Hookup dating Trommald
  • boutwell

    Sr. Member
    Posts: 16

    View Profile 
    2011-02-21 10-48-19

    I agree did you read my first post?
    Asian Princess in 711 friday, chat sex Hatch - Hanover MN, Burley ID, Redby MN, Du Bois
  • Married woman wanting for sex Wuhu
  • doane

    Member
    Posts: 6

    View Profile 
    2011-04-27 5-19-04-

    Your first post states that she should be responsible for half of the cost of food. You don't address anything else. $x for three is dirt cheap.
    I'm looking for happiness in my life., sex phone - Slatersville
    mccullar

    Hero Member
    Posts: 20

    View Profile 
    2011-07-02 3-34-31-

    Teach her a lesson. You said the court recommend ed increasing it twice and SHE dropped the request. Tell her that she is lucky to be paying the lower amount of $x.x. Let her know that next time she tries to waste your time in court. YOU will file for increased support to the maximum extend permitted by the court. Unlikely that the court will make her pay for your phone s, but you could try. I don't think there is a limit to how many times a person can be dragged into court. They don't look at it as harassment, more like business as usual($). BTW, you are lucky. I get approximately $x in support.
    maumee hotel today or tomorrow 103pm available Visiting here, korean girls Bunker Hill IN, Hamilton NY - Foremost Alberta
  • Guy seeking discreet loving Wolverine MI
  • santo

    Hero Member
    Posts: 17

    View Profile 
    2011-07-27 20-40-35

    Tell us more about you ex
    My Friends Dont See Color, nm dating - Royal Center Indiana, Garrett
  • Sex personals Corbin
  • sedlar

    Hero Member
    Posts: 12

    View Profile 
    2011-11-04 23-10-06

    I hardly included anything except $x.........
    Sweet 69er here, sex shamele Dayton Iowa, Buffalo Center, Beaupre Quebec, Altamont - Provo Utah, Berlin Ohio
  • mmmmmmmmmm
  • maia

    Full Member
    Posts: 40

    View Profile 
    2012-07-10 0-19-38-

    Just counterfile for an increase
    Handsome Man Wishes Orally Insatiabl Sweetheart, divorced women seeking Eolia MO, Middlefield Connecticut, Fruit Cove Florida, Tremont - Sahuarita Arizona, Lake Bronson
    tattersall

    User
    Posts: 84

    View Profile 
    2013-03-03 10-52-45

    I don't want to go to trial I don't care about it getting raised. I just want it to stay the same, and for the matter to stop ASAP. It is with the DCSS, but they are no help.
    Whos wishes have fun, male massage Cochenour Ontario, Eustis Florida, Brusly, Gates OR - Higbee MO
  • Dating internet services Smithville TX
  • rettke

    Sexy
    Posts: 44

    View Profile 
    2013-12-29 3-36-58-

    Have you gone through CS enforcement? I hear they do it all for you.
    out for some serious dinner, hookup ne Newport Coast CA, Crawford - Conway FL, Wayne Oklahoma, Coal Grove OH, Colorado TX
  • Woman sex and fuck Kidderminster
  • ruzek

    Member
    Posts: 40

    View Profile 
    2014-01-07 23-54-08

    Yes In California DCSS does everything but represent you. They are the ones who calculate the amount and send it out. Right after she gets it, she goes to the next court date and says "nevermind". Like I said, this has been going on for years. When she had the she was constantly filing to get support raised. I went with it. She was also always filing trying to change around the visitation oxr custody. After the came to live with me she agreed to the custody change (it was her idea) then changed her mind again, then decided she didn't like the visitation, then the support amount. The thing is, she never sends anything to me to try and work it out. She just goes and files at the courthouse. Then serves me with paperwork. It has been like this for the last x years. All the freaking time with court. And she can't even bother to visit or the .
    Cute BBW seeking to play, enumclaw webcams Sauvie's Island Oregon - Sparta MO, Dunsmuir, Solomon, Dewey OK
  • Good pussy Crabtree PA
  • rennard

    Hero Member
    Posts: 60

    View Profile 
    2014-03-11 10-31-08

    Why are you so passive? If you haven't figured it out in x years coming here and asking for help isn't going to get you anywhere. Just go after the full amount, the increase will pay for the phone .
    Any latinas within or near Hercules?, sex madre Prince, Ruskin Nebraska, Santa Claus GA, Currie MN - Simsboro LA
  • lonely rich ladies
  • dianna

    Newbie
    Posts: 60

    View Profile 
    2015-07-05 7-49-28-

    Maybe he has a closet of secrets of his own. Maybe he doesn't want to rock the boat.
    In that respect there she blows, rachel mcadams dating Salcha, Sunnyside - Lower Brule SD, Center Texas, Ranchos Penitas West TX, Bryceland
  • Senior sex Lake IN
  • anzhela

    Newbie
    Posts: 42

    View Profile 
    2015-12-09 10-02-48

    How can I leave you alone if you insist on arguing with me just for the sake of arguing?
    EXTRA TALL FINE BBW PREFERENCES BIG DICK, sex red woman Riverdale Park, Bremen Georgia - Skaneateles
  • Free naughty webcam chat in Deer Arkansas

  • Related Posts

     

    Report Abuse

    Valid CSS! Powered by SMF 1.1.11 | SMF © 2006-2009, Simple Machines LLC Valid XHTML 1.0!